Self care isn’t always accompanied with a big declaration or a perfectly lit Instagram story. Sometimes, it’s as simple as slipping into your favorite silky robe after a long day, lighting your favorite candle, and calling a friend. Our community carries so much — from family and careers to creativity and ambition — you deserve softness, not just for yourself, but for the ones we love. You deserve a gentle, loving, grounded community.
True self care isn’t selfish. It’s contagious. When you offer peace, presence, and clarity, you give others permission to do the same. And then it folds back on itself and multiples, making everyone feel more cared for in the process. These are just a few reasons for our Referral Program. We wanted to make it easier (and more rewarding) to spread wellness to the ones you love, and in turn get a little something back for yourself. If our handcrafted luxury kimono clothes have become part of your daily ritual, it’s even more rewarding to let your friends in on the secret. They’ll receive a special treat, and you’ll earn rewards to use toward your next self care investment. There are so many ways to give the gift of groundedness and deep breaths to the ones you love. Here are a few meaningful ways to share self care with your inner circle — because the best part of finding something that soothes your soul is passing it on.
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Call Your Friends and Really Listen
In a world of voice notes and “let’s catch up soon,” there’s nothing more invigorating than an actual phone call. It’s almost luxurious in our current climate to settle into your favorite chair, maybe wrap yourself in your white long robe, and just listen to a friend’s update. Ask how they’re really doing. Give space for silence. Be the person with whom they find the greatest exhale. People are meant to be connected, and that’s where wellness begins. If one of your closest friends is teetering on the edge of burnout, your calm energy and grounded presence can be a powerful balm bringing them back from the edge. And after you hang up? Follow it with a little text: “You’ve been on my mind. Check your inbox — I found something you’ll love.” That’s your cue to send them your referral link. You both get rewarded. They get their own wearable work of art and you get a thank you from us.
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Send a Gift Out of Nowhere
There is no greater thrill than receiving a surprise gift from someone who just gets you. No holiday. No occasion. Just a “this made me think of you” moment. Whether it’s the plus size duster kimono robe in their favorite color they just haven’t had time to pick up yet, or a silky robe that feels like a wearable hug, these are the gestures that say I see you and you deserve softness, too. Your friends trust your taste — they’re the ones asking you where you got those kimono clothes from and what they should wear out on a blind date. Use your referral rewards to make that moment extra special. You get points. They get a little extra luxury. Everyone wins.
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Invite Them to an Experience
Whether you bring your bestie to a yoga class, on a run through the woods, a film screening, or a reading club — there’s a certain intimacy in moving and doing something new together. The curiosity of a novel experience. The heightened presence and attention in doing something new. The knowing glance in a crowd of strangers. Trying something new is a beautiful way to connect with friends. You could invite a friend who’s been stuck in stress mode to come with you to your favorite yoga class. Or bring her with you to our kimono store in San Francisco to shop for her own white long robe — something she can wear after a shower or first thing in the morning, as a physical reminder to choose herself every day. We’ve seen it happen again and again: one robe becomes two. A weekly yoga class turns into a wellness ritual. A gift becomes a conversation about burnout and boundaries. Our silky robes are not just kimono clothes — they’re invitations. When you refer a friend, you’re doing more than recommending a product. You’re extending an experience. One she’ll wrap herself in daily.
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Bring Something Over to Her Home
You don’t have to plan a whole retreat to nourish your friendships. Sometimes, it’s just showing up with a candle that smells like calm or a meal that doesn’t require them to make a decision for which they no longer have the mental capacity. It’s curling up on the couch together, wine glasses in hand, silky robes flowing, talking about life and love and why your kids won't stop asking for snacks. Bringing a plus size duster kimono robe to a friend who’s had a hard week is more than a gesture. It’s a gentle lifestyle nudge. A loving prompt to slow down. A way to say, Hey, I know you’ve been carrying a lot. Let’s put some of it down. And let’s be honest — you’ve probably already recommended her five books, two podcasts, and a new matcha powder this month. Why not complete the circle with the coziest, most elegant self care tool in your rotation?
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Spread the Love (and Earn the Rewards)
When you share the magic of our handcrafted kimono robes, you’re not just helping a friend discover their new favorite ritual. You’re helping yourself, too. Our Referral Program is made for people like you: discerning, generous, in-the-know, and always one step ahead. Here’s how it works: Share your personalized link with all of your friends so they can get $30 off their first purchase. When they make a qualifying purchase, we’ll send you a special $30 discount as a way to say thank you for spreading a little wellness to the ones you love.
Self care is sacred. But it’s even more powerful when it’s shared. When you share the gift of self care, you’re saying, “This helped me feel more like myself. Maybe it’ll help you, too.” So go ahead: make the call. Send the gift. Show up with dinner. Invite her into your wellness world. And when you do, don’t forget your referral link. Because love, like a little luxury, is best when passed on.
